How to know the best traits of own personality and improve them

Are you feeling difficulties or strains with your friends or at work? Are you feeling not good enough to keep good relationships with your close mates or the people in general? Read this article to know the secret traits of your personality to renew and refine your lost relationship.

The world is full of mysteries in terms of surprising elements that thrills our hearts. The poets write poetries, the scientists raise theories and we simply praise the glory of the nature, the God’s wonderful gift to man. Still there is a certain class of people who find themselves amidst a bunch of problematic situations in their daily life due to misunderstandings, misinterpretations and moreover, the lack of self-analysis, belief and positive attitude. It is a fact. Despite decent education and status as a responsible person in his society and family, they are neglected in all minor and major decisions of his relatives and siblings more often as if they deserve to be ignored. As a result, they come forward, complain, ask for a reply but they are again treated as selfish by others. Thus they feel separated from others in terms of ideology and left behind in a lonely world to do what they want with sharing of feelings! In real life, many people suffer from this reason by being separated from their intimate friends, companions and family members. But what is solution to it? Who is really responsible for the dilemma? Is there any way by which the difficulties of a person can be managed and solved out easily? I say, yes… by knowing your distinguished talents, qualities or traits and improving them. How? Read more below.

Be calm and cool

Never get raged easily to a difficult situation. Can you change or solve the situation immediately on your own? Then why anger or emotion or reaction? Just be calm and cool. Try to apply your brain to know its root cause and think how to remove it completely. After you feel an idea to be reasonable, suggest it to all in pleasing words so that they can focus on it. In that way, you won’t be applying your ego over others and your relationships will stay as cool as ever. Right?

Never get slammed back with one stroke

To err is human. So, it is not sure that all your plans and suggestions will work fine for all. Then your friends, family members and co-people will react with improper comments and feedback. But you should not slam back at them. Rather be patient and hear what they are telling you and understand their words as to where or why you went wrong. Acting in this way can lead to your further improvement. The key is, try to inculcate the ‘never-say-die’ attitude within you.

Do not seek advice from experts too often

When we fall ill, it is natural that we take appointment and visit a doctor. But if we are made ‘ill’ by others, we have to act with intelligence. Never tell your situation to so many experts and seek their instructions. Be self dependent and be mentally strong. Rearrange your feelings and wait for the right moment to start with right people so that they can peep into your thoughts and understand the reality. Because if we do not have a group of friends and comrades of equal mentality, we are sure to be left behind.

Self analysis and self assessment

These are the topmost key factors of spotting your traits from others and grooming them. Remember, until and unless you develop an inner renovation of yourself, you can’t change your bad habits or attitudes that tempt others to have bad impression about yourself. The best way to analyze your activities by keeping routines and records of what to do and what not to do. Schedule your daily activities in written form, use pen and paper or mobile reminders as you like. At the end of the day, try to write all the works performed in the day in your daily dairy. Do NOT miss any single bit of incidents that happened in the day. Then it will be easy to analyze your actions and gradually, you will definitely realize about your strengths and weak points. Especially, as the time goes on, you will spot your trait which makes you unique from others and master over it.

The Bottom Line

In the modern era of challenges and competitions on each and every step, you will not be able to wipe away the hyper tensions unless you are mentally strong enough. So, my final tip to you is – stay positive and stay stable as ever. You will surely win your race and win the hearts of everyone too.