What is the main cause of domestic violence in India? What
to do in case of mismatches/differences in ideologies among family members? How
to stop domestic violence? What are the tricks to stop domestic violence? How
to lead a tension free life without any domestic violence or depression? If you
are revolving around these issues, then go through the article below to find a
sorted out solution.
India is a country with a population over 125 crores and
most of these populations are from middle class family; which means that most
Indian people suffer from not good enough financial stability. These people are
not completely poor, but their dreams for themselves and their children remain
unfulfilled on most cases. The unquenched thirst for success life leads to
several mutual allegations upon each other among the family members,
principally the husband and wife. Every morning, people hear swearing of words,
scolding each other and finally physical fighting. People other than the family
members i.e. neighbors do not think it appropriate to go and stop this kind of growing
domestic violence in India because of traditional courtesy and etiquette. But
if we do not come forward and make a voice against domestic violence, then how
can we stop it? How can the cause of domestic violence be uprooted?
The first cause of domestic violence is lack of
education and culture. Often people think to make money easily and fulfill
their dreams. So, they do not let their children go to school for studies.
Instead, they engage them in laboring works, which is illegal. This is where
these kinds of people create a base platform for domestic violence. Because
unless you have good education and knowledge, you cannot easily make difference
between good and bad.
Secondly, people become selfish while maintaining a family
and they do not think about others’ happiness. That’s why family members are
differentiated easily while taking an important decision because everyone wants
to rule over. And it is not appropriate. So, this mismatch in ideology and
thoughts leads to familial separation and then quarrel etc. etc.
Thirdly, people never analyze where they went wrong. They
never want to know
the best traits of own personality to renew their lifestyle and be a well respected
gentleman.
To stop domestic violence, the first and foremost duty is to
publicize it immediately. Do let the people know about it without any further
delay so that they can make it reach the TV news and other media. Concerned
government authorities like police staffs and several NGOs can take due action
against the culprits of domestic violence instantly.
Next, do not be a silent watcher of domestic violence. Do
not enjoy others’ peril! Go forward and knock the door. Use your conscience and
ask for some your emergency things like some sugar, milk or so to divert their concentration
on domestic violence. If still they are not controlled, stop them if you are physically
able to do it. Try to know the root cause of such domestic violence in Indian
rural families and make a satisfactory mutual agreement if you can do as per
your educational ability and advice. Do not use any forcing words and other bad
usage of words to show your heroic skills! Just be gentle and speak like a
concerned father or guardian. Show equal respect while you stop them so that
they hear your words. Because unless they hear what you say, you won’t be able
to stop them from quarreling and fighting.
Yes, above are some of the best tips and tricks to stop
domestic violence in India. Use them practically in life and help people
improve in mutual understanding among family members and lead a tension free
life without any hyper tension and depression too.
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